Kay moved with her family to Duke, Oklahoma where she began her education at Duke elementary school. She remained in the Duke community where she graduated from high school in 1962. Shortly after graduation she married Loyd Lee Crabb on July 7th, 1963. After their marriage they moved to Oklahoma City for a period of time before returning back to Duke in 1966. Kay was a homemaker and took pride in caring for her family and making sure they were well provided for. Together they moved to Mangum, Oklahoma and then to Sayre in 1974 where they resided and made their home. Kay was an amazing seamstress and mother who enjoyed spending time with her family and friends.

She is preceded in death by her parents; and one son, Mark Crabb. Kay is survived by her husband, Loyd, of the home; 1 daughter, Kathy Graham, Oklahoma City, OK; wife of Mark Crabb, Tammy Crabb, Slaton, TX; 3 grandchildren, Clay Graham, Oklahoma City, OK, Toby Crabb, Lubbock, TX, and Cody Crabb, Oklahoma City, OK; 3 great grandchildren, Haidyn Crabb, Meladeigh Crabb, and Ambrosia Crabb; sister, Donna Germany, Birmingham, AL; niece, Amy Milner and husband, Brad and their daughter, Lainey, Birmingham, AL; nephew Kyle Germany, Biloxi, MS and a host of other relatives and friends.